AUTHOR! smit
The first dating idea for any bloke is to make a nice impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be one-of-a-kind, that's all you need. Be a bloke of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make seven be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured & cheap; be a bloke of nice habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the automobile of your dream. But unlike a automobile which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her & your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady. Befriending & understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to comprehend that as a lady, he loves to be loved, adores to be adored & needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl & you'll get to know what she's in to, what he likes & dislikes, & what her style is. Love is built on friendship & it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I & my College steady were to break some time later but to date, they're the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her generate room for you in her heart. How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most attractive lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity & slid in to her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards & it was all about her physique & her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if he could be kind to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that night, & her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later he told me that was so creative of me, no seven had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me & made a date in the romantic manner. A shoulder to lean on & some nice friend that he can always turn to is all that a lady wants. don't hesitate to be helpful & supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking & restoring hope back in to her life when he looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin basically because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality & character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom he can open up to, share with & advice each other on the rights & wrongs, the dos & don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the nice times, & to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend. Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, & let her know that he has touched your life in a distinctive way like no seven else could. Compliment her for her company & for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad & all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you & for making you smile. In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, & every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, & always cheer her on & encourage her. Tell your girl how you always reckon about her even when you try not to reckon about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning & the last thing when you go to bed at night. Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket & gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' & her heart will sing your name all the year round. Never fail to phone her, even when he least expects it. I seven time called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people reckon of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, he was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how plenty of dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, drop her home & with a friendly handshake, wish her nice night. Don't kiss her when he expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her & accessing her inner graces. You have to be creative & constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember seven time I told my missus to be to imagine they're both deaf & dump. they then sat opposite each other on the table & started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes & hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that they were in the library & they decided they're not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper & passed it across the table to her, he replied & on & on they carried on our love on paper conversation till they almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that they play deaf & dump three years after they broke up, can you imagine that? The writing is on the wall that you need her, but you can't have her yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when he feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored & much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much in to you & since love is truthful & is characterized by open & honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, & your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen & to hold her hand, & that you'll always do your best to make her happy, & feel loved. Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. & then, seven day they holds out his hand & the fruit basically drops in to it, ripe, warm & eager to be eaten. The patience & self-control which you practice will make you more attractive & charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin & win you that heart hers. I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, & make her feel the happiest girl in the world!
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